Why I hate small talk

I’m writing this today because I saw someone on my Slack with the status:

“Ask your actual question rather than ask how am I”

And I connected so much with that simple phrase.

Before the times of internet, and the rise of websites like Medium where people can quietly share their thoughts, I always felt like an outsider.

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Software Engineer and Salesperson. Just trying to tell some real stories.

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Software Engineer and Salesperson. Just trying to tell some real stories.

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